“The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere.They’re in each other all along.”
~ Rumi
Relationship is such a large focus in our lives because let’s face it, we love, love. But relationships aren’t always easy. Actually, they trigger the crap out of us because they reveal all of our wounds, fears, insecurities and unmet needs. For that reason, they’re incredible teachers and catalysts for growth.
The funny (not so funny) thing, is that I often hear singles frustrated and sad that they’re not in a relationship, and couples that are frustrated and sad (in a different kind of way) that they’re in a relationship that feels unfulfilling. It’s hard to get it right, isn’t it?
And yet, we crave love, yearn for partnership and companionship because at the end of the day, our heart feels at home in the lap of love.
The key is not just to seek love or be in any relationship. It’s about attracting and cultivating a love and relationship that is authentic, alive and in alignment with who you truly are.
And that’s what I’m here to do: to support you in receiving and creating the love and relationship that reflects your true, Authentic Self.
If you’re single and tired of the traditional ways of looking or finding a relationship:
I support individuals in firstly creating a healthy relationship with themselves by connecting them to their Authentic Self. From there, they can then attract a relationship in harmony with who they truly are, instead of replicating the same patterns of either rejection, abandonment or general dissatisfaction.
As humans, we repeat unconscious patterns until we make them conscious and change the root cause of what is driving those behaviours and patterns. There’s always a good reason for why we keep getting into the same situations. We just have to unveil the why and then we can change the outcome.
New couples in the first year, experience both the honeymoon phase and the “all of your shit gets triggered” phase. Why? Because relationships are vulnerable and they remind of us of our wounding, hurt, pain, fears, insecurities and unmet needs.
In the first year especially, couples can experience great highs followed by great lows. Getting support to help you lay a good foundation for your relationship is vital for its future longevity because solid foundations make for strong houses. You’re building a home together and that home requires care, loving attention and conscious awareness as the building blocks.
For couples that have been in longterm relationships, it’s easy to get stuck in routines, in the mundaneness of domestic life, bad ways of communicating and feel like the love (and chemistry) is lost.
Relationships are a living thing and we need to make sure that we keep them enlivened by our presence and desire to create genuine connection.
Whether you’re single and wanting to attract a relationship, or wishing to deepen your current one, I’m here to help you manifest and create a truly authentic relationship.
