Singles Coaching: Helping You Attract The Right Relationship
“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
What clients who come to me for singles coaching often say…
So many singles have said to me,
I’ve been single for so long, what’s wrong with me?
Or they’ll say something like,
I keep attracting the same kind of relationships that aren’t healthy for me and always end badly. What am I doing wrong?
Firstly, there’s nothing wrong with you. There’s always a reason for our behaviour and why we get stuck in patterns, whether that pattern is singlehood or ‘bad relationships.’
Why people come to me for singles coaching
We often feel like whatever is going on for us, whatever we’re experiencing, that we must be the only ones feeling this way.
Do you know how many people have asked me during a consultation,
“Am I the only one that feels this way? Have you heard of any other similar stories?”
The answer is always, No you’re not the only one, and yes, I’ve heard many similar stories.
We’re not as alone as we think…
People come to me because we don’t like to feel alone in our experience. We find comfort in knowing that, though our stories may vary, we face similar struggles and feel similar emotions that go along with those struggles.
So know that you are not alone…
How I can help
I am here to create a safe space and act as a guide so that you feel less alone going into yourself. And the thing is, if you want to truly attract a healthy, authentic relationship, you have to go in and do the inner work.
Why? Because that’s where you’ll heal, find home, discover your true, Authentic Self and embody the peace and happiness you’ve been seeking. Then from that place, you’ll be able to manifest a relationship that is in alignment with who you truly are.
Where you’ll end up
People come to me unsure of themselves, feeling like something is wrong with them and not knowing how to love themselves.
Through the process and inner journey, they come out feeling like it’s ok to be who they are. They recognise and truly feel their self-worth and have learnt how to fully accept and love their entire selves.
I feel so honoured to witness this transformation in people. To see them relax and light up as they let go of their shame and fully embrace who they really are. It’s like slipping into a warm bath or putting on your most cosy sweatpants where you can let your belly fully relax. That’s what getting to be you-all of you-without any shame, judgment, doubt or fear, feels like.
Attracting the right relationship
Attracting a relationship is less about looking for, or finding, a relationship and more about opening yourself up to receiving the right relationship for you.
This means doing the inner work and that’s what I’m here to support you with and guide you through.
It’s a beautiful journey, I promise you! Because in the end, as so many clients have said to me in the past, the relationship they’ve been seeking almost becomes secondary to how grateful and happy they feel about their newfound relationship with themselves.